Member since May 2025
Jodi's passion, theater background, dynamic storytelling style, and comfort in speaking to groups of any size make her an engaging, authentic, and compelling speaker. Her warmth and humor leave audiences feeling seen and able to engage with sometimes difficult topics. Attendees often express that it was as if Jodi was speaking directly to them, and they felt energized, empowered, and determined to reach that cherished destination - a family. Vividly chronicled in her bestselling memoir, Jodi's experience of abuse as a child, and the resilience and ferocious tenacity she developed, enabling her to overcome the greatest setback of her life, provide the foundation of an inspiring and surprisingly hilarious signature talk. A devastating infertility diagnosis at forty, and triumph in building her unique family, highlight how she managed to traverse the most challenging landscape and arrive at the realization of a lifelong dream. From her early days as a singing server at the legendary Improv in LA and NYC, to her stint as Larry David's girlfriend, to her work as an actor, singer, and long-time voiceover artist, Jodi has always embraced hilarity and been rooted in creative expression. Her amazing lived experience and the resulting scope of her perspective make her the perfect speaker to deliver the uplifting message that her audience can escape the glare of those headlights, come to clarity and confidence, and finally build the family of their dreams, though it may look a bit different than they ever imagined. Different... but no less beautiful!
My greatest passion is to uplift and guide others as they navigate the turbulent waters of family-building, when the "conventional" route to that destination has been blocked off. Whether it's a woman with a life-changing diagnosis of infertility, someone pursuing parenthood later in life, an individual choosing single parenthood, a person hoping for family after an illness or accident has made pregnancy impossible, or LGBTQ+ couples searching for their best path to parenthood - my passion is to guide them toward their dream destination. My lived experience of yearning to create my family after fertility had waned, and my husband's and my spectacular triumph in building our family with 3 children, all of whom arrived into our home and hearts via different modes of transport, inspired my work as a bestselling author, speaker, and family-building educator, creating a comprehensive family-building education program. Knowing how much sweeter family can be when it takes a village to create it has made me deeply passionate about helping others experience their own triumph.
How a life-affirming, and I believe life-saving epiphany occurred at the age of six, when I hid, curled up under our dining room hutch, as my parents had one of their eardrum-shattering arguments. In terror, with ever-rising rage, I realized that fear would cripple me and fury could save me. This was the defining moment of my life. I began to build the muscle that would power me through the toughest times, including infertility and six years of treatment, culminating in the great triumph of building my family through three different paths: the "natural" way, adoption, and from a donor egg, when I gave birth at forty-six to our youngest child.
When I was pregnant with my third child, I ran into a friend and told her my happy news. I shared that once this child was born, we'd have three kids, all of whom arrived via different modes of transport: "natural", adoption, and from a donor-egg. She said "That's amazing! You should write a book!! You could call it ONE FROM EACH COLUMN!!" And I thought, now that's a good idea! Twenty-seven years later, I sat down and started to write. In less than a year, ONE FROM EACH COLUMN: My 46-Year Trek from Abusive Childhood to Elusive Motherhood launched to bestseller status in seven categories on Amazon, including Adoption, Infertility, Parenting, Relationships, and Women's Inspiration. I soon founded Jodi Tolman SPEAKS!, and gave birth to “From Powerless to Parenthood and Points Beyond”, a comprehensive family-building education program designed to help those experiencing infertility, or simply looking for their best path to parenthood, move from confusion to clarity, armed with the information necessary to make decisions and choose options with confidence.
As a seasoned speaker and bestseling author, Jodi’s theater background,dynamic storyteling style, and deeply personal journey make her a compellingonstage presence. Her authentic warmth and humor leave audiences feeling thatshe was speaking directly to them. The abuse Jodi experienced as a child fueledferocious determination that ultimately powered her through her greatestchalenge — building a family after infertility at 40. In this signature talk, she inspireswomen facing infertility or pursuing parenthood later in life, individuals choosingsingle parenthood, and those exploring same-sex family-building pathways. Jodialso focuses on bonding with, raising, and loving children who come into familiesvia different paths. Audiences leave better equipped to move forward with clarityand confidence. Her message is one of perseverance and hope - when newpaths are discovered, families can be built and dreams can come true
How a life-affirming, and I believe life-saving epiphany occurred at the age of six, when I hid, curled up under our dining room hutch, as my parents had one of their eardrum-shattering arguments. In terror, with ever-rising rage, I realized that fear would cripple me and fury could save me. This was the defining moment of my life. I began to build the muscle that would power me through the toughest times, including infertility and six years of treatment, culminating in the great triumph of building my family through three different paths: the "natural" way, adoption, and from a donor egg, when I gave birth at forty-six to our youngest child.
When I was pregnant with my third child, I ran into a friend and told her my happy news. I shared that once this child was born, we'd have three kids, all of whom arrived via different modes of transport: "natural", adoption, and from a donor-egg. She said "That's amazing! You should write a book!! You could call it ONE FROM EACH COLUMN!!" And I thought, now that's a good idea! Twenty-seven years later, I sat down and started to write. In less than a year, ONE FROM EACH COLUMN: My 46-Year Trek from Abusive Childhood to Elusive Motherhood launched to bestseller status in seven categories on Amazon, including Adoption, Infertility, Parenting, Relationships, and Women's Inspiration. I soon founded Jodi Tolman SPEAKS!, and gave birth to “From Powerless to Parenthood and Points Beyond”, a comprehensive family-building education program designed to help those experiencing infertility, or simply looking for their best path to parenthood, move from confusion to clarity, armed with the information necessary to make decisions and choose options with confidence.
As a seasoned speaker and bestseling author, Jodi’s theater background,dynamic storyteling style, and deeply personal journey make her a compellingonstage presence. Her authentic warmth and humor leave audiences feeling thatshe was speaking directly to them. The abuse Jodi experienced as a child fueledferocious determination that ultimately powered her through her greatestchalenge — building a family after infertility at 40. In this signature talk, she inspireswomen facing infertility or pursuing parenthood later in life, individuals choosingsingle parenthood, and those exploring same-sex family-building pathways. Jodialso focuses on bonding with, raising, and loving children who come into familiesvia different paths. Audiences leave better equipped to move forward with clarityand confidence. Her message is one of perseverance and hope - when newpaths are discovered, families can be built and dreams can come true