Monica is licensed therapist, specializing in anxiety and trauma treatment. Monica has worked as a High School Counselor and Wellness Counselor before opening her private practice, Whole Mind Wellness.
Monica is the author of Shade of Pink, which chronicles her journey through breast cancer. Monica has also authored the workbooks, The Art of Showing Up, and How to Live with Anxiety, and hosts the Anxiety Anecdotes Podcast.
Monica lives in West Bloomfield, Michigan with her husband, son, and Rufus the dog.
I am driven by the passion to create meaningful change in people's lives. Whether through one-on-one therapy, writing workbooks, developing online courses, or blogging, my goal is to provide tools and strategies that help others manage anxiety, overcome challenges, and live their best lives. I am passionate about empowering individuals to find their voice, embrace their true selves, and navigate life’s complexities with confidence and resilience.
My work is not just a career; it is a reflection of my journey, my values, and my unwavering belief in the potential of every person to overcome adversity and thrive. I am passionate about creating a space where people feel seen, heard, and supported—where they can find the strength to transform their lives from the inside out.
More than 100 miles
I always get paid for speaking
When I was asked to give a TEDx-style presentation at the school where I was a counselor, I almost declined. I had always been confident in my one-on-one interactions with students, but the idea of speaking to an auditorium full of people was terrifying. However, something in me knew that this was an opportunity I couldn't pass up.
As I walked onto the stage, I could feel my heart pounding in my chest, and I was sure everyone could hear it. But as I began to speak, something incredible happened. I was sharing a story about resilience, drawing from my own experience battling breast cancer. The room grew so quiet you could hear a pin drop. For the first time, I felt the weight of my words truly resonate with an audience.
At the conclusion of my presentation I was surprised to receive a standing ovation. It hit me that my story, my vulnerability, was touching people in ways I hadn't anticipated. It wasn't just about giving a speech; it was about creating a connection, offering hope, and making an impact.
After the presentation, several people came up to me, not just to thank me, but to share their own stories. That was the moment I realized that public speaking wasn't just about delivering a message—it was about starting a conversation and inspiring change. It was a turning point in my career, leading me to eventually open my own practice, where I could continue to help people on a deeper level.
After working as a high school counselor, where I grew increasingly frustrated with the bureaucracy and parental control, I experienced a life-altering moment when I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Losing my hair during treatment forced me to re-evaluate my identity, as I had always seen myself as the tall, pretty blonde. This challenging period led to deep self-reflection, and I realized that my true passion lay in making a meaningful impact on individuals rather than being a part of a rigid system.
I discovered my love for public speaking after giving a TEDx-style presentation at the school I worked at, which sparked a shift in my values. I decided to leave the educational system and open my own therapy practice, Whole Mind Wellness, during COVID. Since then, I have been thriving, dedicating myself to helping others manage anxiety and live their best lives. I've authored workbooks, developed online courses, and regularly write blogs, all aimed at providing practical strategies for personal growth and well-being.
Presentation Title: Managing Anxiety: Strategies for Stress Relief and Wellness
Audience members will discover effective strategies for managing anxiety in this comprehensive workshop designed to empower you with practical tools and insights. Over four engaging modules, you'll explore:
Module 1: Understanding Anxiety
Gain a deeper understanding of anxiety's root causes and learn how to identify and address triggers effectively.
Module 2: The Vagus Nerve
Explore the role of the vagus nerve in regulating stress responses and practice techniques to activate this crucial pathway for calming the nervous system.
Module 3: Attachment Theory
Delve into how attachment styles influence anxiety, and learn how to foster secure relationships that support emotional well-being.
Module 4: Values-Based Living
Identify your core values and learn how aligning with them can reduce anxiety and enhance overall life satisfaction.